chore: electron forge and enables electron v29+

[jgresham]

#457 #456 And gets us off of a slowly fading set of build tools and onto the new and official electron dev, build, and publishing tools

with Vite replacing Webpack, we should see much faster dev environments too

• [ ] build and tests
• [ ] package and publish
• [ ] github actions
• [ ] auto-updater
• [ ] deep clean
• [ ] storybook vite