WIP: support .nwb.lindi.json files

[magland]

Description

These are the changes needed to support .nwb.lindi.json files in addition to .nwb in spyglass.

• The copied file name will be of the form filename_.nwb.lindi.json
• In the LINDI case, all of the data is copied, and the raw is not omitted.

~~Optimistically, no other LINDI-changes to spyglass will be needed because LINDI provides a patch to h5py that allows it to automatically handle .lindi.json files based on their extension.~~

For more information about LINDI: https://github.com/neurodataWithoutBorders/lindi

Checklist:

• [x] This PR should be accompanied by a release: unsure
• [x] If release, I have updated the CITATION.cff
• [x] This PR makes edits to table definitions: no
• [x] N/A If table edits, I have included an alter snippet for release notes.
• [x] I have updated the CHANGELOG.md with PR number and description.
• [x] I have added/edited docs/notebooks to reflect the changes: maybe not necessary at this stage?