Better support for named parameters
"Go needs to support every kind of SQL server - and not all SQL servers support named parameters."
What BS. Leaving aside "SQL server" confuses with a specific product ("SQL database" would be a better word choice here), other platforms also support every kind of database and have no trouble also support named parameters. The "quirks and gotchas" really are insignificant. Named parameters have a number of advantages, including better when managing complex queries, reusing the same parameter in more than place, making it easier to set a parameter value for queries run in a loop, etc. This needs to be FIXED (because it really is broken as is).
While I understand where you're coming from, this is not really an issue with the code in this repo.