Adding "wind-charge" flag (1.21.1+)

[RedstoneFuture]

Overview

This PR adds the "wind-charge" flag to prevent the block-update of minecraft:wind_charge and minecraft:breeze_wind_charge.

Description

• updating serversoftware dependency from 1.20.4 to 1.21
• adding new flag "wind-charge" to allow or block the block-trigger behavior (default false)
  • I check for build permission (added, trusted, owner) so that the permissions are similar to projectiles flag and users don't have to turn on the flag for everyone just because they want to work with it.
  • The projectiles flag must also be activated so that other players can use the wind-charges. I think it makes sense because the projectiles flag still seems to be ordered higher. -> wind-charge is more critical, so it has its own additional flag.
  • explosion flag still manage the explosion behavior (explosion clouds), but this is not necessary for the wind-charge effect.
• adding checks in the ProjectileEventListener1211

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[dordsor21]

I think this is the same as the Java 21 PR where we would be required to drop <1.21 support due to binary incompatibilities somewhere with 1.21+ paper API

[TruaYT]

Please adding ;)

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