Change scope of Maven core artifacts to provided

[rquinio]

Fixes #4019 Fixes #4033

Maven 3.9.2 now warnin about plugins that have Maven core dependencies in their runtime classpath. The change will require a release of jib-maven-plugin-extension-api, before releasing jib-maven-plugin. Locally I had to use a 0.4.1-SNAPSHOT and mavenLocal() (cf #3973). Declare explicitly dependency maven-shared-utils for org.apache.maven.shared.utils.Os (used to be transitive).

Tested via mvn clean install -f examples/helloworld/ -Dmaven.plugin.validation=VERBOSE, the warnings are gone with jib-maven-plugin:3.3.3-SNAPSHOT