Change the type of internal_ips and external_ips to Set instead of List.

[askubis]

Previous bevahiour was causing flaking tests, as List enforces an order, whereas MIG API does not.

fixes https://github.com/hashicorp/terraform-provider-google/issues/13430

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compute: Fixed problem with ordering in stateful tests of InstanceGroupManager and RegionInstanceGroupManager