Forbid extra option and bubbling up the inner-most exception

[mishamsk]

Hi,

This does two things:

• Mostly implements #136 (see below)
• Adds a new config option forbid_extra_keys, that, well, checks for extra keys during deserialization and fails with a new exception.

Caveats:

• The codecs code is pretty dense, I've tried to understand it without the comments, but do not feel confident enough to apply any changes there => the new features may or may not work for codecs
• I dropped the ball on implementing the full path for sequences. I do not think that their going to be any noticeable performance penalty to track current sequence index, but to implement it, the whole unpack_collection must change from an expression generator to a full sub-builder. That's a bit too much for my time constraints;-)

I'd love this to be merged though. I think it adds quite a lot of value already.

Let me know what you think!