[buildingplan] add the option to create work orders for missing building materials / furniture

[chdoc]

As the title implies, it would be nice if buildingplanner would not just notify the player of missing building materials / furniture, but also included the option of queuing work orders for these. Preferably, this would be configurable per filter.

[myk002]

see https://github.com/DFHack/dfhack/issues/2883 for thoughts on this

[myk002]

Closing as dup of #2883