Change node hooks to take in HamiltonNode

[elijahbenizzy]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe. StaticValidator does, but the rest don't. We should fix this. We just need to keep it backwards compatible, and we can do this with **future_kwargs. Possibly log a warning as well.

Describe alternatives you've considered Keeping it the way it is

Additional context API consistency

[zilto]

I believe this can be closed?