AdvancedCollectionView ArgumentOutOfRangeException fixed, or at least improved

[myblindy]

Fixes

PR Type

What kind of change does this PR introduce?

• Bugfix

What is the current behavior?

AdvancedCollectionView crashes with ArgumentOutOfRangeException with live shaping (filtering).

What is the new behavior?

One less crash.

PR Checklist

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• [ ] Sample in sample app has been added / updated (for bug fixes / features)
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• [X] Contains NO breaking changes

Other information

Closes #4813