Add CMake configuration options that control usage of sanitizers

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Implement CH_ODBC_ENABLE_ASAN, CH_ODBC_ENABLE_UBSAN, CH_ODBC_ENABLE_MSAN, and CH_ODBC_ENABLE_TSAN, taking into account their interoperability with each other and other options and build types. Review/reuse the content of cmake/sanitize.cmake.