Bug: Pre-reconcile checks based on owner state may be out of date

[matthchr]

Describe the bug

When a pre-reconcile check runs, we refresh our view on the resource state, but we do NOT update the owning resource status. This may result in the check failing for a long period of time until the reconcile-interval kicks it and updates the parents status.

This is especially noticeable with DBForPostgresSQL as it has a number of checks for owner state.

Azure Service Operator Version: 2.16, but probably impacts all ASO versions

Expected behavior

The pre-reconcile check gets an up-to-date view of the status of the owner

[matthchr]

May not get to this til early Jan, given leave.

[theunrepentantgeek]

When this bug is fixed, we need to remove the suppression for this test from samples_tester.go (look for wholeSampleExclusions):

• Test_Samples_CreationAndDeletion/Test_Dbforpostgresql_v20250801_CreationAndDeletion