[FeatureRequest] Add memory to Aider

[ErykCh]

Issue

This is somehow connected to #727 I added file .aider.memory.md to the project and also as a parameter to aider.

But I have to update it myself. For example, if it turns out that I want the LLM model to structure the code a little differently. For example, to use the lobock library from Spring Boot for logging.

It would be nice if Aider caught user questions about a certain style of work or code creation and automatically maintained the .aider.memory.md file and saved the user's comments there and automatically placed this file on the list printed by /tokens and sent it to the LLM model.

Version and model info

Aider v0.40.7-dev Models: openrouter/anthropic/claude-3.5-sonnet with diff edit format, weak model openrouter/anthropic/claude-3-haiku Git repo: .git with 36 files Repo-map: using 2028 tokens Added .aider.memory.md to the chat.