Add support for python 3.12 and python 3.13

[instinct-vfx]

Motivation Even though vfxplatform has not yet officially switched to python 3.12 it would still be good to add support for 3.12 and 3.13. Python 3.11 is already in "security" mode and no more binaries are provided.

Related Issues/PRs

• Depends on #1943 as some of the issues are fixed by updating our vendored dependencies