remove boost and in favor of c++ std/abseil

[aceforeverd]

current boost version won't compile on macOS 13, or higher gcc version. Most usage to boost can easily replaced from std or absl, its generally preferred to rm it.

Or if there is the case a lower gcc required, like centos 6 ?, use C macros to wrapper those functionality ? Anyway if centos 6 is able to compile gcc 8, macros are not necessary

[aceforeverd]

yet many warning generated about boost

ld: warning: direct access in function 'boost::cpp_regex_traits::get_catalog_name()' from file '/Users/runner/work/OpenMLDB/OpenMLDB/.deps/usr/lib/libboost_regex.a(cpp_regex_traits.o)' to global weak symbol 'guard variable for boost::cpp_regex_traits::get_catalog_name_inst()::s_name' from file 'libhybridse_core.a(sql_case.cc.o)' means the weak symbol cannot be overridden at runtime. This was likely caused by different translation units being compiled with different visibility settings.