[Feature Request] Start Update should require a wait stage.

[drewhoskins-temporal]

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Child of https://github.com/temporalio/features/issues/469

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[josh-berry]

Notes from team discussion:

• temporal workflow update really needs sub-commands
• temporal workflow update start should be added, and require a wait stage
• temporal workflow update execute should follow the existing behavior of temporal workflow update
• We can add temporal workflow update terminate later for workflow cancellation