Allow incremental configure runs

[TheModMaker]

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Now, when we run ./configure, it runs configure for each third-party dependency. But if you want to change some build settings, this may not be needed. This is especially important on some machines/platforms where these steps can take a while (FFmpeg configure takes over a minute on my Mac machine).

We should detect when we don't need to run configure again for a third-party dependency.