Build release wheels for aarch64 and macOS ARM with Cirrus CI

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@matthewfeickert is it possible to move the wheel building for aarch64 on new releases to Cirrus CI as well as part of this PR?

See: https://cibuildwheel.readthedocs.io/en/stable/setup/#cirrus-ci

Apparently, we can also build wheels for macOS ARM (M1/M2) directly on Cirrus CI.

Originally posted by @jmduarte in https://github.com/scikit-hep/fastjet/issues/168#issuecomment-1371383416