Please update abseil version dependency

[vovaani]

Issue Description

Current version of abseil that rules_proto_grpc depends on fails to build with xcode 13.3, with the following error -

external/com_google_absl/absl/functional/function_ref.h:124:16: error: definition of implicit copy constructor for 'FunctionRef<void (absl::string_view)>' is deprecated because it has a user-declared copy assignment operator [-Werror,-Wdeprecated-copy]

This was fixed at a newer version of abseil.

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rules_proto_grpc Version

4.1.1

Bazel Version

4.2.2

OS

MacOS 12.3.1

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[maxbennedich]

Just a note that we'd love to see a fix for this, since for some time now our repo does not build with newer versions of Xcode, which is causing quite a bit of developer frustration. If there's any workaround while we're waiting for 4.2.0 that would be awesome.

We've tried adding --host_copt=-Wno-error=deprecated-copy on our side, but haven't gotten it to work since -Wextra -Werror is being added afterwards somewhere, which overrides our setting.