Use session-specific log where possible

[chrjohn]

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For some error cases there only is a message logged to the general log. But it would be beneficial to see such errors in the session-specific log file.

Example where the SessionID is available but only the general log is used: https://github.com/quickfix-j/quickfixj/blob/9bdd8b82f52244bced67b5e7f37f6096f13429c5/quickfixj-core/src/main/java/quickfix/mina/initiator/AbstractSocketInitiator.java#L185