Enable use of external fmt

[mtao]

Current code assumes the use of spdlog's bundled fmt even thought dependencies might overwrite this behavior.

fmt/ostream.h / spdlog/fmt/ostr.h seems to break for me - so i removed their usage for now with some utility functions

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 51.72414% with 14 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 81.59%. Comparing base (0cd21ba) to head (26702a7). Report is 9 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
src/polysolve/nonlinear/Criteria.cpp	33.33%	12 Missing :warning:
src/polysolve/nonlinear/Solver.cpp	75.00%	2 Missing :warning:

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