[Feature]: migrate from internal `bundle-size` to OSS `monosize`

[Hotell]

Library

• React Components / v9 (@fluentui/react-components)
• React / v8 (@fluentui/react)

Describe the feature that you would like added

We are using bundle-size tool which source etc lives within fluent. In the meantime it was "forked" and open sourced as monosize https://github.com/microsoft/monosize tool.

For better maintenance, consistency and support we will migrate to use monosize only.

Have you discussed this feature with our team

@microsoft/fluentui-react-build @layershifter

Additional context

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[Hotell]

monosize recently moved to native ESM modules - we need to be on node 18 in order to migrate.

[layershifter]

@Hotell AFAIR Node 16 can run it, Node 18 is required only for one of storage adapters to use native fetch.