Implement strategy to handle idle connections

[ecton]

Original issue is in comment 2.

@daxpedda introduced max_idle_timeout in fabruic, which offers a simple solution to the problem, but after thinking about it, we need more logic in BonsaiDb itself to handle this in ways that I would want as a database administrator.

The Fabruic setting can only be done at initialization time, and it doesn't impact WebSocket clients. To me, BonsaiDb's idle strategy needs to work similarly for all types of connections. Additionally, if we can't turn on or off the idle timeout, then features like PubSub start requiring reconnection to function. Finally, authentication requires a back-and-forth negotiation, and we shouldn't force clients to reconnect and reauthorize unless absolutely necessary.

Thus, here's what I think we should do:

• [ ] Add new Server configuration options:
  • idle timeout
  • authenticated idle timeout
  • server keepalive interval (must be less than idle timeout)
• [ ] Set Fabruic's the max_idle_timeout to some reasonable value within BonsaiDb. quinn's documentation warns against using None due to malfunctions or bad actors being able to cause futures that never time out.
• [ ] Introduce KeepAlive on both Request and Response, perhaps with unique names to indicate the direction of flow.
• [ ] Introduce a server-generated KeepAlive:
  • If the connection should be kept alive (authenticated, or there's an active PubSub subscriber), the server should send a KeepAlive response based on the keepalive interval configuration
  • The client should respond with a KeepAlive request whenever it receives the server message.
• [ ] Update the server to keep track of the last time a Request was seen.
• [ ] Update the loops that fetch new requests from a client to have timeouts based on the last time a request was seen and the correct idle timeout based on the connection's authenticated state.

[daxpedda]

This might be a QUIC timeout thing, tell me if it's that, then I can expose a setting that disables it or let's you set whatever you like. If you like to solve it from your side you can send a ping or something to prevent it from timeout.

[ecton]

I appreciate your quick reply! I was recording the creation of khonsulabs/minority-game and realized that the QUIC connections were disconnecting after no traffic was sent. I'll take a look at what's happening and let you know what I think we should do.

Most of the new issues from today/yesterday that have very little info were just created on-the-fly as I was recording so that I didn't forget.

[ecton]

This also affects websocket connections. Given the idea of #275, I wonder if this request and it shouldn't be merged into one shared "system".