Change py_binary to load from rules_python

[stagnation]

To follow the (future) migration of the python rules out of the set of native rules: https://github.com/bazelbuild/bazel/issues/17773 . This requires us to load the 'rules_python' module and while at it we parameterize the 'py_binary' so it is possible for consumers to switch to their own macros, following the model of pip_compile: https://github.com/bazelbuild/rules_python/blob/9b2b70adba5431162401a97b2bbab1dc938e7245/python/private/pypi/pip_compile.bzl#L32

This solves loading errors:

ERROR: Traceback (most recent call last):
    File "/home/nwirekli/.cache/bazel/_bazel_nwirekli/1eeb85843c9866d288d7d5644c3b4615/
    external/hedron_compile_commands+/refresh_compile_commands.bzl", line 67, column 27, in <toplevel>
                py_binary = native.py_binary,
Error: no native function or rule 'py_binary'
Available attributes: ...
ERROR: error loading package under directory '': error loading package '@@hedron_compile_commands+//':
initialization of module 'refresh_compile_commands.bzl' failed