Arrow: Update arrow to v16

[ryantxu]

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What this PR does / why we need it:

This PR updates the arrow library (and parquet support) to the latest v16 release. v16 has improved parquet support (now with full metadata)

UPDATE...

waiting for https://lists.apache.org/thread/fstyfvzczntt9mpnd4f0b39lzb8cxlyf to play out and then update. Looks like that process will require code changes once, but then way less frequently

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[ryantxu]

ugg -- the dependency in https://github.com/scottlepp/go-duck/blob/main/go.mod#L8 -- make our deployment here more difficult. So this may take a while 🤔

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[ryantxu]

Closing in favor of https://github.com/grafana/grafana-plugin-sdk-go/pull/1164