Fix data race when a buffer queue is being reset instead of being initialized

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A data race happened when emptying buffers of a failing broker, in its thread, with the statistics callback in main thread gathering the buffer counts. Solved by resetting the atomic counters instead of initializing them. Happening since 1.x

Closes #4522

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