support setting the last `resource version` in the reflector

[Iceber]

Support setting the resource version in the reflector before resource synchronizatiion.

In the weak network environment, the start and stop of resource synchronization may be more frequent, so setting the last resource version can avoid the full list

[Iceber]

We need to refactor the reflector to use watch and then list to prevent the list from getting the full amount of resources in case of errors