if ajax is passed to `baseMap` or `superMap` don't overwrite it.

[justinbmeyer]

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if the ajax option is passed to supermap, we shouldn't be doing this:

https://github.com/canjs/can-connect/blob/master/can/base-map/base-map.js#L34

We should make sure can-rest-model and such work this way too.