feat: expose protoc_gen_options on ts_proto_library

[mattem]

Exposes a dict for setting options on protoc_gen on the ts_proto_library

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Allow custom options to be set on ts_proto_library for protoc-gen.

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[jbedard]

Can we make this an explicit argument in the public macro and document it there?