[BUG] Improve the compilation time and memory consumption when building GAE

[sighingnow]

Describe the bug

Seems github has (may be temporarily) adjust the memory limit of runners on Github Actions, causing failure on our main branch: https://github.com/alibaba/GraphScope/runs/7441676827?check_suite_focus=true

The building time and memory usage are indeed a longstanding problem of GAE. I would take a look and try simplifying the header/module dependencies.

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