feat(rangeCalendar): allow to customise the behavior when the pointer is released outside of the component

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Closes https://github.com/adobe/react-spectrum/issues/8850

Adds a new property to useRangeCalendar allowing you to specify the behavior when the pointer is released outside of the component:

• select: (default) same as the current behavior, commit the hovered range dates.
• clear: clear the current range selection.
• reset: restore the previously selected range (i.e., the one selected before starting a new selection).

✅ Pull Request Checklist:

• [x] Included link to corresponding React Spectrum GitHub Issue.
• [x] Added/updated unit tests and storybook for this change (for new code or code which already has tests).
• [x] Filled out test instructions.
• [x] Updated documentation (if it already exists for this component).
• [x] Looked at the Accessibility Practices for this feature - Aria Practices

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