Fix buttons inside disabled grid list items not being disabled

[joshuajaco]

Closes https://github.com/adobe/react-spectrum/issues/6323

✅ Pull Request Checklist:

• [x] Included link to corresponding React Spectrum GitHub Issue.
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• [ ] Filled out test instructions.
• [ ] Updated documentation (if it already exists for this component).
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