chore: update opentelemetry dependency, and handle non-fatal resource errors

[dashpole]

Description

Update OpenTelemetry dependencies, and follow best-practices for handling resource established in https://github.com/open-telemetry/opentelemetry-go/pull/4887.

Checklist

• [x] I have followed Contributing Guidelines from CONTRIBUTING.MD
• [x] Tests pass: go test -v ./.. (see Testing)
• [x] Code formatted: gofmt (see Formatting)
• [x] Vetting pass: go vet (see Formatting)
• [ ] These samples need a new API enabled in testing projects to pass (let us know which ones)
• [ ] These samples need a new/updated env vars in testing projects set to pass (let us know which ones)
• [ ] This sample adds a new sample directory, and I updated the CODEOWNERS file with the codeowners for this sample
• [ ] This sample adds a new Product API, and I updated the Blunderbuss issue/PR auto-assigner with the codeowners for this sample
• [x] Please merge this PR for me once it is approved