Disable `optimize_trivial_insert_select` by default

[alexey-milovidov]

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The setting optimize_trivial_insert_select is disabled by default. In most cases, it should be beneficial. Nevertheless, if you are seeing slower INSERT SELECT or increased memory usage, you can enable it back or SET compatibility = '24.6'.

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